Sometimes, pointing out others' problems can be very tiring because you not only need to spend energy transforming the information about the other person's behavior into a language they can understand, but also need to defuse their defensive emotions. Ultimately, if you are not successful, you end up provoking the other person, exhausting yourself, and it is purely harmful to others without any benefit to yourself.
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Sometimes, pointing out others' problems can be very tiring because you not only need to spend energy transforming the information about the other person's behavior into a language they can understand, but also need to defuse their defensive emotions. Ultimately, if you are not successful, you end up provoking the other person, exhausting yourself, and it is purely harmful to others without any benefit to yourself.