How to make people genuinely feel that you are difficult to deal with and hard to grasp? The core is three points: First, do not give him any emotional response. If he compliments you, you remain unfazed; if he tests you, you do not engage; maintain a neutral expression and a calm heart. He won't be able to read you, and naturally, he will feel you are difficult to handle and hard to pin down. Second, do not let him lead your actions. For example, do not explain, do not refute, do not prove yourself. His tactics will all fall flat. If he tries to provoke you, you do not fall into the trap; if he pressures you to make a statement, you simply ignore him. Third, do not let him succeed psychologically. The more he tries to make you panic, the calmer you should be; the more he wants to exhaust you, the more you should refuse to play along. Do not fear his disapproval or be influenced by him, and he will have no hold over you. If he cannot manipulate your emotions, cannot find your weaknesses, and cannot affect your rhythm, you will win.
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How to make people genuinely feel that you are difficult to deal with and hard to grasp? The core is three points: First, do not give him any emotional response. If he compliments you, you remain unfazed; if he tests you, you do not engage; maintain a neutral expression and a calm heart. He won't be able to read you, and naturally, he will feel you are difficult to handle and hard to pin down. Second, do not let him lead your actions. For example, do not explain, do not refute, do not prove yourself. His tactics will all fall flat. If he tries to provoke you, you do not fall into the trap; if he pressures you to make a statement, you simply ignore him. Third, do not let him succeed psychologically. The more he tries to make you panic, the calmer you should be; the more he wants to exhaust you, the more you should refuse to play along. Do not fear his disapproval or be influenced by him, and he will have no hold over you. If he cannot manipulate your emotions, cannot find your weaknesses, and cannot affect your rhythm, you will win.