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In China, have you ever suddenly realized that every day before dawn, children who still insist on going to school are actually quite great? That little person has to step into a world full of uncertainties, face invisible viruses, handle sudden social interactions, remember complex rules, and learn many seemingly incomprehensible pieces of knowledge. Yet, they still wake up on time every day, pack their bags, open the door of their home, without saying much about the hardships, but we all understand. Leaving the warm bed, enduring the anxiety of separation, maintaining emotional stability thr

How to distinguish whether a war-themed film or TV show is a "movie" or a "promotional video"? There is only one standard: if after watching it you feel very upset, nauseous, scared, extremely disgusted with war, and start to reflect deeply and want to stay away from war, then this is a true war movie. But if after watching it you feel blood boiling, want to go to the battlefield, charge forward, and kill the enemy, then this is not a movie, but a promotional video. Believe me, true war is always hell, and only promotional videos can turn hell into paradise.

Your child's genes are given by you, the environment they grow up in is provided by you, their social class is determined by you, and their lifestyle is also shaped by you. Don't blame your child for not being successful.

There are two types of people who are most easily awakened: one is those with deep karma, who can achieve enlightenment and awakening with just a single opportunity because they have accumulated many good causes in their daily lives, making success inevitable. The second type is those who have experienced suffering. Most of us fall into the second category. In this world, too many people cannot be awakened; they can only be painfully awakened. A person's cognition and awakening do not happen during peaceful times; without experiencing the harshness of society, the cruelty of reality, the hards

Relying on anyone is like committing suicide. How long will it take for you to realize that there is no tall grass under a big tree? It can shelter you from the wind and rain, but it will also prevent you from seeing the sunlight.

A typical Chinese family member says: From now on, we need to fully cut down education costs. Keep your money in two places. The first is for when your child can't get into a good university in the future, so they can rely on their parents. The second is for when your child can't get into a good university, but discovers their own talents, and you support them in pursuing it. Currently, out of 100 children, only 1 can get into 985 universities. Only 2 out of 100 can get into 211 universities. Out of 100 children, 20 suffer from depression. Are you sure that your poor pressure can turn your chi

If a person has no ill intentions, they won't casually inquire about you, because asking about someone is inherently a form of malice.

Don't casually give advice to others, even if you genuinely hope the best for them. This is not indifference, but a respect for psychological boundaries and personal development. There is a term in psychology called "helper's malice." Unsolicited advice is very easily perceived by others as an invasion. But if someone hasn't asked for your help, and you rush to give advice, they often subconsciously hear three messages: first, you're doing something wrong; second, you can't handle it yourself; third, I understand better than you, I have more experience and wisdom. Therefore, even if your inten

In China, families of top students share a common trait: they tend to be relatively quiet. When the parents of a top student meet with teachers, they usually listen quietly and communicate calmly. They mainly listen to what the teacher has to say. On the other hand, families of underperforming students, if their child’s grades are not very good, tend to vent their frustrations, criticize their children, and talk about how difficult their lives are. It’s often hard for teachers to get a word in. If both parents come together, it can even feel quite noisy, as both try to voice their opinions and

Being smart maximizes the ability to inspire others' kindness, and emotional intelligence is the key to maximizing others' trust.

Why are many people unable to achieve effective communication? Actually, there is a very important point: you are expressing your feelings, but the other person thinks you are accusing them. In psychology, this is called defensive listening. The other person is not unable to understand what you are saying, but they are constantly in a high-alert self-protection mode. They automatically interpret all expressions related to negative emotions as attacks or negations against them. So a common situation is that you just want to be understood, but they are already prepared to attack or defend themse

Do you believe it? As long as you have value, others can perform for you in a way that makes you feel very comfortable, so you don't need to analyze others' motives and reasons. After understanding human nature, what you need to understand more is yourself. Studying others is clever, but studying yourself is true wisdom. Knowing people doesn't require revealing everything; allow genuine feelings and falsehood to coexist. Don't compete with anyone; no one is worth you exhausting yourself. Conscience is not valuable, but it can remember and see cause and effect. So remember, never bully yourself

A Chinese mother in the United States said: That day at the school gate, I saw a child quietly lining up, not making a fuss or noise, like a porcelain doll. I casually praised, "Your child is very well-behaved." The other parent's expression, however, changed noticeably, not with happiness, but with a subtle discomfort. After returning home, I kept thinking, where did I go wrong? Later, I discussed this with the teacher, who explained that we don't often use "well-behaved" to evaluate children because it more reflects obedience rather than the child itself. At that moment, I suddenly realized

As a child, he lied and got beaten half to death by his parents. As an adult, he tells the truth and gets beaten half to death by society.

Actually, the most unforgivable mistake a person can make in their lifetime is marriage. It’s different from other matters; there is room for redemption. If you choose the wrong partner, the cost is not just a few short years of your time, but your entire life script being completely rewritten. Most of the time, the rewrite ends in tragedy and misery, with no good outcome. Don’t believe in love, don’t believe in love, believe in character, because when love disappears, if the other person is a good person, at least you won’t be battered and bruised everywhere. Regarding marriage and partners,

The most insidious form of education is teaching people to be kind but never revealing the true nature of society. Those who often teach you kindness are actually very evil, equivalent to sending sheep into a wolf pack and then telling you that the world is full of love. Schools won't teach you how to defend yourself, and parents and teachers may not understand the rules of social survival. Some people's children understand the laws of human nature by the age of 10, while others' children will spend their entire lives enduring hardship. Constantly enduring hardship is a form of cruelty to ones

I plan to create an X-Chat group. Do you think these functions would be useful in the group?

The way to create wealth lies in accurate prediction and budgeting, not in relying on physical effort. Mastering the laws and trajectories of how things operate allows you to obtain the golden key to solving problems. Hard work alone cannot make you rich; it can only fill your stomach. Prosperity depends on grasping trends and key points. The key to gaining benefits is a broad perspective that considers timing and overall situation. You don't necessarily have to farm yourself; being overly involved can cause you to become deeply entangled in the situation without realizing it. The situation is

Many moms complain that taking care of children is exhausting. In fact, taking care of children is a very easy task. Only controlling the child makes you feel tired. Let the child do what they want to do, rather than forcing them to do what you want them to do. This way, you will be relaxed, and the child will be happy. Not controlling does not mean not providing protection, environment, and opportunities.

The best support for children in ordinary families is, first, to eat more beef, and second, to buy more books. Eating more beef helps them grow physically, and buying more books helps develop their minds. But the problem is, what if some children have limited talent and just can't develop their brains no matter what? Then we should eat more beef—that way, even if you're not smart, you still have a good body.