Last winter, when A-Zhe reached out to me, he only had 1,500U left in his account.
His voice was terribly hoarse: “If this goes on, I won’t even be able to pay next month’s rent.” Twice, he’d gone all-in on shitcoins and got liquidated, losing all his living expenses. I didn’t talk to him about candlestick patterns or indicator formulas—I just gave him three hard rules. Three months later, his account shot up to 42,000U. But in the end, I still deleted him.
**Rule One: The Three-Part Capital Principle**
Split the 1,500U into three parts, 500U each. Use the first part for short-term intraday trades—no more than one trade a day, take profits immediately at 3%. The second part waits for swing opportunities; don’t enter if the price is consolidating and hasn’t broken key levels. The third part is your last resort—keep it for emergencies, no matter how much the market drops, don’t touch it.
At first, he thought it was too slow and complained, “At this rate, I’ll never make it.” But after seeing a few guys in the group go all-in and blow up their accounts, he finally listened. Position sizing is simple in theory, but few people can actually stick to it.
**Rule Two: Trend is King, Rest During Sideways Markets**
In crypto, 80% of the time is just grinding sideways. The best strategy during consolidation is—uninstall the app, stop watching the charts.
I remember one time BTC was flat for five days straight, and A-Zhe was itching to enter a trade. I held him back: “Wait until it breaks out, don’t rush.” On the sixth day, BTC suddenly pumped, and we caught a 12% move. After that, he finally understood that “waiting” is a skill.
Another principle: Every time you make more than 20% profit, withdraw half. Only money in your pocket is real profit—the numbers on your screen can change in an instant.
**Rule Three: Use Rules to Lock Down Your Emotions**
This is the most important one. Set your stop loss in advance—if you lose 2%, cut the position. If you’re up more than 5%, sell half. Emotional trading is the number one killer in crypto.
Once, he was trading ETH, and as he was about to hit his stop loss, he wanted to add more to his position and hold. I remotely closed the trade for him. ETH kept dropping after that, and he broke out in a cold sweat. He never dared break the rules again.
Rules aren’t for negotiation—they’re for execution.
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But once his account hit 42,000U, A-Zhe started getting cocky.
He began bragging in the group that “he could lead others to make money,” and behind my back, he went heavy on some altcoin. He lost 30%. Instead of reflecting on it, he blamed me: “If I’d done things my way, I would’ve doubled my money by now.”
Looking at those chat logs, I suddenly realized something: The scariest thing in crypto isn’t the market volatility—it’s people who lose their respect for the market after making some money. Making money makes people arrogant; losing money wakes them up.
Before deleting him, I left him with one last message:
**“Going from 1,500U to 42,000U wasn’t luck—it was discipline. But you forgot: discipline is the foundation that keeps you alive.”**
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Having a small starting capital isn’t scary; what’s scary is always thinking about getting rich overnight. The ones who survive in the market are never the luckiest—they’re the ones who know how to control themselves.
Rules and human nature are always at odds. If you stick to the rules, you’ll keep your money; if you don’t, the market will teach you a lesson sooner or later.
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ChainWanderingPoet
· 12-09 22:06
This is a classic example of self-destructive behavior after making money, it's so real.
Making money actually becomes even more dangerous—I know this all too well.
To put it bluntly, it's an issue of discipline. Most people simply can't stick to the rules.
A-Zhe had actually already won in that round, but ended up ruining himself—what a pity.
The three-part capital allocation strategy is definitely old advice, but very few can actually stick with it.
This guy's getting overconfident too quickly—once there's a bit of success, he wants to show off. That's a huge taboo in the crypto space.
Once your mindset collapses, everything is over.
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TradFiRefugee
· 12-09 00:22
Making money is harder than keeping it. This guy is a typical case of post-get-rich syndrome.
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LiquidityWhisperer
· 12-08 23:36
A Zhe Na Bo really had it coming. Made a little money and got carried away—this problem needs fixing.
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To be honest, I've been using the three-part method for a long time, but it's really hard to get people around me to listen.
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Deleting it is the best move. Keeping it around just messes with your mindset.
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We've been dreaming of getting rich overnight for so many years—it's time to wake up, everyone.
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Discipline is more valuable than anything, but unfortunately, most people just don't get it.
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I've seen quite a few people go from despair to a comeback, only to end up in despair again. The story is always the same.
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Stop-loss is truly a lifeline. So many people get wrecked just because they say, "Let's wait a bit longer."
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I need to recommend this trick of uninstalling the app during sideways markets to my friends—our hands are just too itchy.
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The moment you make money, you want to show off. That's when disaster is just around the corner.
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There are no special exceptions in the face of the rules, including those who think they've figured everything out.
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DogeBachelor
· 12-07 18:51
Making a bit of money and getting cocky—this really is a common problem in crypto. Everyone thinks they've figured it all out.
The issue with this guy isn't the rules themselves, the key is that he hasn't really gone through a harsh, painful lesson.
Position sizing is definitely useful, but the hardest part is sticking to it. Most people can't last even a week before giving up.
Turning an account 28x is impressive, but in the end, it's still human nature that ruins it—a bit sigh-inducing.
Discipline > luck, this saying is spot on. The crypto space is all about weeding out those who lack self-control.
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SerumSquirrel
· 12-07 18:28
Making money only to self-destruct—this is the truest side of the crypto world... Discipline really is a life-saver.
Last winter, when A-Zhe reached out to me, he only had 1,500U left in his account.
His voice was terribly hoarse: “If this goes on, I won’t even be able to pay next month’s rent.” Twice, he’d gone all-in on shitcoins and got liquidated, losing all his living expenses. I didn’t talk to him about candlestick patterns or indicator formulas—I just gave him three hard rules. Three months later, his account shot up to 42,000U. But in the end, I still deleted him.
**Rule One: The Three-Part Capital Principle**
Split the 1,500U into three parts, 500U each. Use the first part for short-term intraday trades—no more than one trade a day, take profits immediately at 3%. The second part waits for swing opportunities; don’t enter if the price is consolidating and hasn’t broken key levels. The third part is your last resort—keep it for emergencies, no matter how much the market drops, don’t touch it.
At first, he thought it was too slow and complained, “At this rate, I’ll never make it.” But after seeing a few guys in the group go all-in and blow up their accounts, he finally listened. Position sizing is simple in theory, but few people can actually stick to it.
**Rule Two: Trend is King, Rest During Sideways Markets**
In crypto, 80% of the time is just grinding sideways. The best strategy during consolidation is—uninstall the app, stop watching the charts.
I remember one time BTC was flat for five days straight, and A-Zhe was itching to enter a trade. I held him back: “Wait until it breaks out, don’t rush.” On the sixth day, BTC suddenly pumped, and we caught a 12% move. After that, he finally understood that “waiting” is a skill.
Another principle: Every time you make more than 20% profit, withdraw half. Only money in your pocket is real profit—the numbers on your screen can change in an instant.
**Rule Three: Use Rules to Lock Down Your Emotions**
This is the most important one. Set your stop loss in advance—if you lose 2%, cut the position. If you’re up more than 5%, sell half. Emotional trading is the number one killer in crypto.
Once, he was trading ETH, and as he was about to hit his stop loss, he wanted to add more to his position and hold. I remotely closed the trade for him. ETH kept dropping after that, and he broke out in a cold sweat. He never dared break the rules again.
Rules aren’t for negotiation—they’re for execution.
---
But once his account hit 42,000U, A-Zhe started getting cocky.
He began bragging in the group that “he could lead others to make money,” and behind my back, he went heavy on some altcoin. He lost 30%. Instead of reflecting on it, he blamed me: “If I’d done things my way, I would’ve doubled my money by now.”
Looking at those chat logs, I suddenly realized something: The scariest thing in crypto isn’t the market volatility—it’s people who lose their respect for the market after making some money. Making money makes people arrogant; losing money wakes them up.
Before deleting him, I left him with one last message:
**“Going from 1,500U to 42,000U wasn’t luck—it was discipline. But you forgot: discipline is the foundation that keeps you alive.”**
---
Having a small starting capital isn’t scary; what’s scary is always thinking about getting rich overnight. The ones who survive in the market are never the luckiest—they’re the ones who know how to control themselves.
Rules and human nature are always at odds. If you stick to the rules, you’ll keep your money; if you don’t, the market will teach you a lesson sooner or later.