My buddy from Hainan called with a voice message, his voice was broken: "Li Zi, I only have 2,800 yuan left out of 100,000. Looking at the K-line, I’m trembling."
I didn’t analyze the market with him.
I just said: "Your skills aren’t bad, it’s just your mentality that’s blown up. To survive and get out of this situation, first clear your mind."
He didn’t say a word.
My plan for him was this—divide that 2,800 yuan into three parts.
1,000 yuan for intraday ultra-short-term: make only one safest trade per day, take a 3% profit and then immediately exit.
1,000 yuan for swing trading: buy mainstream coins, then forget about it, don’t check for half a month, just ride the big trend.
The remaining 800 yuan: put into a cold wallet and lock it away. That’s your lifeline.
He said: "Can you really split this money?"
I replied: "The dead have no future. You need to stay alive and cling to the table first."
The next step was even more ruthless—I told him to delete all his market apps. He can only check the market twice a day.
Why? Because this market spends 80% of its time wandering aimlessly. The more you look, the more you want to trade, and as soon as you act, you immediately lose.
Learn this logic: pretend you’re dead during sideways trading, and when the real wind comes, you come back to life.
Only act on swing trades when a confirmed breakout occurs.
When you make a 20% profit, take out 30% of the profit to your wallet—only money that’s in your pocket is real money.
And here comes the most crucial trick.
Before each trade, I told him to write down three ironclad rules on paper:
1. Cut losses immediately if they exceed 2%, without hesitation;
2. Take half profits when reaching 4%, lock in gains;
3. Never do these: add to losing positions, hold on to bad trades, or get emotional.
He later told me that once, ETH’s rapid movement almost made him hold on, but when he turned and saw that paper, he gritted his teeth and cut the position.
Five minutes after he cut, the market plummeted. He broke out in cold sweat, but for the first time, he understood—rules saved his life.
In three months, 2,800 yuan turned into 130,000.
Not a single liquidation.
Last week, he told me over drinks: "The lost money is finally back, but that’s not the most important thing."
"Then what is?"
"Finally, I’ve become a cold, robotic trader. Emotions can no longer kill me."
Opportunities in crypto are always there, but they only favor those who are alive.
The threshold to stay alive is actually very low—use rules to lock down your hands, replace your fantasies with execution plans.
If you’re still losing money, don’t just focus on technical indicators.
Ask yourself these questions: Is your position diversified? Are you controlling your hands? Have you written down that record of discipline?
Discipline is boring as hell, but discipline can keep you alive until dawn.
Only by staying alive can you wait for the wind to turn.
The bull market frenzy is for the crazy, but the prerequisite is—you must still be alive.
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GateUser-d3a2087b
· 9h ago
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招财锦宝
· 9h ago
Discipline is easy to talk about, but how many people actually stick to writing on that piece of paper?
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DataOnlooker
· 17h ago
Discipline is easy to talk about, but how many people actually stick to writing on that piece of paper?
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TopBuyerBottomSeller
· 17h ago
Discipline is easy to talk about, but few people actually manage to write that piece of paper.
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Turning 2800 into 130,000 sounds great, but the key is the self-control during those three months without checking the market — not everyone can do it.
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Honestly, the hardest part to control is that 80% of the sideways market time. I only realized this after being cut.
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The setup of that $800 cold wallet is excellent; it really is a lifesaver.
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The saying "rules save lives" hits home, but nine out of ten people who write notes won't stick to it for more than a week.
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Another mental health joke, but it’s really not wrong — skilled traders are plentiful.
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The problem is, who can really check the market only twice a day? Sounds easy, but it’s not.
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DeFiDoctor
· 17h ago
The consultation records show that the main symptom of this patient is—emotional trading complications, in the acute phase. Starting from 2,800 yuan to recover to 130,000... and so on, this data seems a bit off. A 4,600% return in three months? First, we need to rule out whether the false prosperity is caused by leverage and increased positions, or if it's just an extreme case of luck. But speaking of which, this set of "discipline boring therapy" indeed hits the pain point of crypto traders—spending 80% of the time wandering aimlessly, and getting liquidated with a careless move. I agree with this diagnosis. But what I want to ask is, has this plan considered liquidity risk and failure scenarios under market abnormal volatility? Deleting the app to limit viewing twice, this seems more like a mental therapy rather than a risk management system.
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DefiPlaybook
· 17h ago
This wave of mindset management courses is more valuable than any technical indicator.
From 2800 to 130,000, honestly, the key is still that piece of paper and self-discipline.
I'm just missing this string.
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DefiPlaybook
· 17h ago
According to data, the impact of mindset management in trading accounts for as much as 73%, far exceeding the 27% from technical analysis—this article hits the nail on the head. It is worth noting that the author mentioned that "80% of the time is wasted," which roughly aligns with the actual on-chain trading situation.
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NeonCollector
· 17h ago
Wow, this is true sincerity. That trick with the note is brilliant.
#美联储回购协议计划 The crash at 4 a.m.
My buddy from Hainan called with a voice message, his voice was broken: "Li Zi, I only have 2,800 yuan left out of 100,000. Looking at the K-line, I’m trembling."
I didn’t analyze the market with him.
I just said: "Your skills aren’t bad, it’s just your mentality that’s blown up. To survive and get out of this situation, first clear your mind."
He didn’t say a word.
My plan for him was this—divide that 2,800 yuan into three parts.
1,000 yuan for intraday ultra-short-term: make only one safest trade per day, take a 3% profit and then immediately exit.
1,000 yuan for swing trading: buy mainstream coins, then forget about it, don’t check for half a month, just ride the big trend.
The remaining 800 yuan: put into a cold wallet and lock it away. That’s your lifeline.
He said: "Can you really split this money?"
I replied: "The dead have no future. You need to stay alive and cling to the table first."
The next step was even more ruthless—I told him to delete all his market apps. He can only check the market twice a day.
Why? Because this market spends 80% of its time wandering aimlessly. The more you look, the more you want to trade, and as soon as you act, you immediately lose.
Learn this logic: pretend you’re dead during sideways trading, and when the real wind comes, you come back to life.
Only act on swing trades when a confirmed breakout occurs.
When you make a 20% profit, take out 30% of the profit to your wallet—only money that’s in your pocket is real money.
And here comes the most crucial trick.
Before each trade, I told him to write down three ironclad rules on paper:
1. Cut losses immediately if they exceed 2%, without hesitation;
2. Take half profits when reaching 4%, lock in gains;
3. Never do these: add to losing positions, hold on to bad trades, or get emotional.
He later told me that once, ETH’s rapid movement almost made him hold on, but when he turned and saw that paper, he gritted his teeth and cut the position.
Five minutes after he cut, the market plummeted. He broke out in cold sweat, but for the first time, he understood—rules saved his life.
In three months, 2,800 yuan turned into 130,000.
Not a single liquidation.
Last week, he told me over drinks: "The lost money is finally back, but that’s not the most important thing."
"Then what is?"
"Finally, I’ve become a cold, robotic trader. Emotions can no longer kill me."
Opportunities in crypto are always there, but they only favor those who are alive.
The threshold to stay alive is actually very low—use rules to lock down your hands, replace your fantasies with execution plans.
If you’re still losing money, don’t just focus on technical indicators.
Ask yourself these questions: Is your position diversified? Are you controlling your hands? Have you written down that record of discipline?
Discipline is boring as hell, but discipline can keep you alive until dawn.
Only by staying alive can you wait for the wind to turn.
The bull market frenzy is for the crazy, but the prerequisite is—you must still be alive.