Allowing close relatives to hit the wall, watching loved ones take wrong turns, quietly observing friends fall into deep pits.

The greatest challenge in life is watching the important people in your life repeat the same mistakes with tears in your eyes. Pain is the chisel of the soul, while preaching is just poison wrapped in sugar.

The Tao Te Ching says: The good do not argue, those who argue are not good.

Those stubborn people who refuse to listen to advice are not confused, but destined.

Not a single detour that should be taken will be missed.

Not a single inch of the wall that must be hit can be spared. The harsh truth of the world is transparent, and kind words cannot wake the souls pretending to sleep.

Compassion cannot save those who are truly aware. Even the most profound truth cannot compare to the realization gained through blood, sweat, and tears.

No matter how deep the wisdom, it cannot replace the growth that wounds to the bone bring.

The so-called fate and destiny can never be forced, just like heavy rain cannot revive rootless autumn grass.

The Tao, even if broad, does not accommodate those without fate.

When a person is willing to jump into the abyss, reaching out to stop them only becomes an obstacle to awakening. Some lessons must be learned alone.

Some sudden realizations come with bloodshed,
The only thing we can do is, when the other person is bruised and swollen,
Offer healing ointment,
Not the blade of blame.
Only when the pain is extreme do we realize the need to restrain ourselves.

Only after falling into the pit do we understand to look up.

True fulfillment is allowing them to turn their falls into steps in your tears, turning lessons into wings.