I came across this story on Xiaohongshu and I feel truly sympathetic. There was a time when I almost made the same choice as her, overshadowed by years of pressure to get married.
I vividly remember fighting against my entire family alone, crying every year as I celebrated the New Year.
Clearly, my previous generation didn’t see marriage as particularly promising. They often complained about their own marriages, yet still believed that getting married was a necessary part of life.
In the eyes of the older generation, whether you can make money doesn’t matter; whether you have a high education

《When Did You Suddenly Understand Your Parents》
Some things are like a heavy stone pressing on your heart for a long time, but suddenly, at a certain moment, you let go of it.
I used to not understand why my parents' love always hidden in blame, why their words could be so stubborn sometimes. I also didn't understand why they always thought that “not getting married and not having children is selfish.”
Until later, I saw them arguing with their own parents, just like I argued with them. They wanted to take Grandpa and Grandma out to play, but the elderly refused and even lost their temper.
The

Originally attracted by the cuisine of a restaurant, but unexpectedly, during the meal, you can also choose to be personally fed by over 180 handsome guys.
Gotta say, restaurants in Chongqing are really competitive now, offering imperial-style service suitable for men.
There are also experiences that give women a wealthy lady feeling for a day, with over 180 young handsome guys personally feeding, wiping mouths, constantly calling "sister," and even blowing on the food to cool it down!
In fact, regardless of gender, when people have money, the temptations they can enjoy and accept are truly nu

Bitcoin is still consolidating at 90,000, but all the crypto folks are just watching from the sidelines. Every crypto group is quiet, as if they never existed.
Even if Bitcoin stays at 120,000, it would still be like this, because very few people can actually afford to buy Bitcoin. Most people are ordinary folks without much money, and the only thing they can really gamble on are altcoins or on-chain meme coins.
But after months of people calling for an "altcoin season," prices just keep dropping, and everyone is really exhausted. The on-chain activity isn’t what it used to be—no matter how ho

I used to think that money was the most important thing, and later I believed that money could do anything.
Now that I can basically afford anything I want, my health has started to fail. My shoulders and neck have been really hurting lately. I've gone for massages several times, but it hasn't helped.
It's only now that I realize health comes first, and it's truly priceless. When we don't have money, we always put it first—waking up early and working late to earn it, striving to buy the things we like, not eating properly, and not resting well.
By the time you have everything, your health is a

What kind of life is truly meaningful?
Yesterday, I had a long phone call with my best friend. It’s been ten years—we seem to have changed, and yet, in some ways, nothing has changed at all.
She said her villa is almost finished, they're painting the walls now, and she asked me, "What color do you want for your room?" I laughed and said there’s no need to save a room for me—I have my own place to live.
She replied seriously, "No way, I have to save you a room. Come whenever you want." Then she muttered to herself, "Let’s paint it princess pink. To me, you’ll always be a little princess."
Sudde

People in the crypto space tend to become obsessed with two types of coins.
One is the coin that has caused them to lose money, because they always want to recover their losses from it, and also to prove that their initial judgment was not wrong.
The other is the coin that has made them money, which creates an inexplicable fondness, leading them to keep trading and buying it.
However, once you develop feelings for a coin, that's the beginning of your losses. Even if you've made money a few times, you'll eventually get trapped by it! $BOB $ZEC #成长值抽奖赢iPhone17和周边 #十二月行情展望 #广场发帖领$50

MEME is dead, please burn paper for any matters!
It has been a long time since we've seen a MEME coin that has gone viral across the internet; it has only been a year, but it feels like a century has passed.
Especially miss the communities of the past $PEPE $SHIB , when everyone truly had faith and the community atmosphere was lively.
The project team really has vision, unlike the current trend where everything on the chain follows the same wave. $SOL $BTC $GT #成长值抽奖赢iPhone17和周边 #GIGGLE和PIPPIN强势上涨 #十二月行情展望

"When Decency Becomes a Luxury, Our Community Was the First to 'Lose Control' Amid Economic Downturn"
Once upon a time, our community was a place many people envied.
Three staircases and six households, with a property fee of 2.8 yuan. The villas and high-rise buildings are arranged in a pleasing manner, making the entire community spacious and bright.
There were three reasons that made me choose this place without hesitation:
1. The environment of the park is indeed beautiful, the greenery inside the community is good, and you can see the river from the back of the community.
2. The u

"An Awkward Ride for the Socially Anxious: Accidentally Becoming the Co-Star in a Drama"
I called a cab today, and maybe because I'm used to riding in my friends' cars, I got right into the front passenger seat without thinking—only to realize it was a BMW.
A handsome young guy was driving. "Hello," he said softly, his face a bit flushed. When we stopped at a red light, he quietly told me, "You can lower the seat a bit, it'll be more comfortable."
I asked him why he was driving Didi in a BMW. He replied that business hadn't been good lately, so he'd stayed home for a few days and got a bit bor

Sometimes it's really not the fault of others, university students can't take off the long gown of Kong Yiji. Just driving past the school, especially during dismissal time, roads may even be closed, not allowing cars to pass.
Create a sense of superiority for these students, making them feel that the only way to succeed is through academic achievement. Then, when they graduate and enter society, they struggle to find good jobs and blame them for being out of touch. So, the high status we initially create for them leads them to realize that their salaries are only around three to five